So you're saying... we should gather our forums friends and crucify them? Got it.
Well, having real discussions is hard on a public platform. There will always be detractors, and most people lack the skills to hold such discussions. For example, MArda always forwards bug reports from the Support section of the forums, but how many people know that? How many people know to check for existing threads before reporting something?
Ideally we would have threads discussing suggestions, and people would talks about how to implement them in as much details as possible, and its pros and cons. Somebody then would compile the result of the discussion and make a thread in Suggestion for the mods to forward to the team in a brief yet concise manner, but it's something from the realm of dreams.