It's not about being nice. It's about not being rude and making things personal. I am not new to the series, as many of you seem to have assumed for... no reason? Or maybe because I disagree with you? Seems like a bad reason to assume something about someone.
You might not be new to the series but you clearly don't have much experience in Bannerlord. Nothing rude, or personal about it, it's just what transpires from the false statements that you have written yourself. In that case though I don't see why continuing to argue about something you know very little of.