DaciaJC said:Like, Lords would bypass half a dozen nearer targets and single out my poor village.
that is exactly what happened.
Game keeps a sort of "personal score" of any lord X player. Make someone angry and they will hunt you down when they don't have anything better to do (recruit troops, drink on a feast, follow the marshal to war, etc). Its one of the AI conditions to decide what a lord should do next.
Feast? Sleep at my bed? Nah, lets raid that village, 1000 miles away, its revenge time!