I understand and am aware of that, Apocal, and its a valid point. But I guess that means they should give both figures. Plus, the troops they pull from garrisons both weakens the garrisons and gives them weaker armies as garrison armies generally are not as strong as lord's armies.
I'll grant you there are a number of figures they could give, such as lords with parties over 50 or something. What they should give depends on what you think is important, but to say the most important figure is total troops isn't accurate, as evidenced by my statement that the 3 enemies I am fighting average 417 troops per town/castle vs 338 for my faction. Using those figures my power is about 80% of theirs, plus my faction has a much bigger war front to cover. And, while they may pull from towns/castles close to them, some of ours are 10 days or more away, which means those troops would be irrelevant for a while anyways..Also, that still doesn't address having absolutely no one in my kingdom EVER wanting to end wars...even when they are about to lose territory...even when they have been captured.