You're again being willfully obtuse.
I think it's a shame that men's issues tend to be framed in terms of sexism against women, even when men are clearly the ones suffering from the sexism. I don't think sex roles are universally advantageous to men and so I don't see why every issue needs to be framed as if they are.
Because the problem would not even exist if women had not been seen as the inferior, weaker, dumber, useless-aside-from-reproduction(and working low paid menial jobs of course)-gender for a long, long time. Mrs D isn't downplaying the seriousness of the topic of the video, or the subject in general - she's pointing out, rightfully, that it's not the fault of feminism that a man being beaten by a woman is seen as a joke, but of the very sexism that feminism combats.
I'd prefer to deal with that when it occurs than pre-empt it, but fair enough. As I said before, I'm not convinced it's relevant which group is more downtrodden overall. Assessing the net position of the two groups overall would be extremely difficult and not all that helpful as far as I can imagine.
If you cared to browse this thread far enough back, you would find several sexist ******* who acted just the way she described. I'm not at all convinced that that wasn't the ulterior motive for MadocComadrin to post it. He has a tendency to think that it's a zero-sum game and that there can only be one winner.
Dodes said:
The reasoning behind the feminist ideologues is that the porn industry is such that it promotes conceptions about the role of women as a sex object as well as that their position in a romantic relationship based on sexual relationship is a submissive one.
-not my opinion
Pretty much. The hatred towards porn in some feminist circles stems from the fact that most porn reduces a woman to a mere sex object, to be toyed with and tossed aside. Even in femdom, the woman is still a sex object and her "dominance" is a mere illusion. Furthermore, porn perpetuates harmful role models to teenagers, who might falsely assume that porn is all that there is to sex, and that if your sex life isn't as awesome as porn makes it look like, you're doing something wrong. Furthermore, porn actresses do not accurately reflect reality - warning, massive picture, best to open in a separate tab, SFW:
The average male pornstar in America is 27 pounds lighter than your average regular Joe, and the average female pornstar in America is 49 pounds lighter than your average Jane. I'm pretty sure that 87% of the regular females do not take facials, or that 62% would do anal.
With those facts done with, I personally don't see porn as singularly evil. It has a lot of bad practices, that Internet&piracy has made even worse, but sexual liberation of women is, IMHO, one of the cornerstones of feminism, and there porn does play a major part.