It's also at least partially wrong. I had some martial lords pissed off when I awarded fiefs earlier today. They have their three fiefs themselves and I double checked with the cheat menu, that's not an issue with a rival.@Huillam It happens, but at least your answer is more detailed
Maybe they want their friends to have three fiefs, maybe they don't like lords originating from another kingdom, maybe that has to do with their vote.
Probably not but let's admit, that's damn good!Is there a single area of the game where it isn't balanced to f--k the player as hard as possible?
The relationship penalty with released lords is a vanilla behaviour. One that works in your favor: Those lords a detrimental to their kingdoms and you definitly want them messing somewhere else. They'll make enemy of more interesting lords that in turn will be more likely to join your kingdom.
Cavalry units try to flank the opposite army but yeah that doesn't work well. If you have control of them, use hit and run tactics: as long as they have some momentum they're good, once they slow down the AI turn crap.
For food I do use Morgh's editor to raise the quantity to 500 for every food item. Now that tracking reduce food consumption that's probably not needed anymore. In ~1200 days I've yet to deplete a single food item.