roboWarrior001 said:
To the women on the forums. Whats with the biting during sex. A girl bit me on the ear two days ago and I didn't like it or find it sexy. In fact it pissed me off cause it hurt like a mother****er, completely through me off.
Speaking from experience, there are
good pains, and
bad pains, and a sharp bite on the ear would send me into "what the ****!" mode. Now, move that to the shoulder, back, neck, or lower abdomen, and it's a-****ing-okay, but yeah, that sounds unpleasant. Harm, rather than hurt (former is bad, latter is good).
roboWarrior001 said:
You guys really find that arousing? Well gentle nibbling fine but biting is out of the question for me. It was so sudden too, a little warning would have been nice. I think my reaction to the pain during sex is what she was looking for. And under no circumstances is a girl allowed to slap or hit me. I put a stop to that ****. We're ****ing for pleasure not pain right?
Gentle nibbling on the ears and around the ears is great! It's an erogenous zone. But it's also sensitive. Speaking personally (because we're all special flowers in this regard), light pain sensation around and on the ear is wonderful, but a hard bite will completely take me out of the moment. But yeah, pain is pleasure for a lot of people. And that thing about reactions has a term: "reaction junkie"; a lot of sadists are like that - personally, it's awesome when they are reaction junkies, because then you don't have to worry if you're in a pain-receiving role about how you react, it'll just feed their fire. I'm a card carrying masochist though, so that **** be coo'. If she wants to slap me, dig nails in, etc, etc, during sex? Completely down with that from my female monogamous partner. It's ****ing hot. But to each their own. The important thing is figuring out what you like (and maybe keeping an open mind - you'd be surprised what you end up liking).
IA said:
I've always enjoyed having my upper lip bitten on. Also enjoy the nail raking and digging as long as they don't go crazy with it.
Curious. I more or less enjoy the lower lip, when the power balance shifts to her end, but when I'm more or less "topping" during a bout of rough animalistic sex, the upper lip is what sets me off. I wonder if there's a quantifiable pattern... we must investigate! For science!