Leveling melee combat skills - Family members

[Dabos37]

Adults, not sure of birthday but I'm a grandparent now; they show level 30 & 34.

Governors, and anyone "left" in town, always participate in tournaments for me; party members, I need to enter also.

1 pip 160, yeah, that does in fact look weird.

I do have "Governors Handle Issues", but afaik that only lets them get minor xp for Quest skills.

I think you have mods which are making easier leveling up characters. The governor kid should have reached hard cap much before getting 160 skill level in Polearm.