The main character's clan's hometown is always set to Chaikand no matter what cultural background is chosen. During my campaign with the Southern Empire I married Ira. Upon marrying her her hometown was also now set to Chaikand after joining the Player's Clan. All of our children were then set to Chaikand as well. The Khuzaits had a hold of this city, and as a result after my children were born instead of appearing in my town [in the empire territory] their location was set to Chaikand. I visited Chaikand and could not find them anywhere. As a result I could not interact with the kids or see them at all.
TLDR; I just wanna see my kids
TLDR; I just wanna see my kids