Lancefighter said:
Also, are there any heros you suggest I try out to begin with? I havnt quite put in my fair share of research time on to each of them, and was just wondering if there are one or two that i 'must have'...
side note: how can i tell if a city or town is mine? Will it be like "pick your color" or something, and i get to chose a unique color for myself? Will it assign me one? Or will it just kinda like just a list, (you own: town of yadayada, blahblah, and soandso), but no color?
None of the heroes are a 'must-have', per say; they just make things easier for you and your party.
Your choice of heroes should be based on your own personal preferences, really.
For example, if you are involved or are planning to involve yourself in a lot of sieges, then Artimenner is a good choice. He's the only hero with a focus on the Engineering skill, if I recall correctly.
Or you could recruit Jeremus, whose healing skills are designed to cater to your war-mongering habits.
Borcha or Deshavi are good at pathfinding, tracking, spotting. Lezalit for training. And Marnid for trading. etc, etc...
Unfortunately, not all of the heroes get along with eachother, so you must take that into consideration when recruiting them. Heroes that don't get along with one of your other heroes usually have their morale suffer with time, eventually resulting in them deserting your party. I'd recommend you do some research on the heroes and their interactions beforehand.
Here's a somewhat comprehensive analysis of heroes: http://forums.taleworlds.com/index.php/topic,36781.0.html
Oh, and there are banners on top of cities, signifying which lord they belong to. The colour of your towns will be your faction's colour. You can't choose your own colour.