Its just such a frustrating game because it hints at so much and could be absolutely brilliant... but after this much time i just dont know whether it will ever be what I am imagining it could be. Maybe with mods. But right now Its a long way off.. Although I have sunk over 400 hours into it so I cant complain too much... I ll keep an eye on updates but for now im giving it a rest.
My main asks are -
Diplomacy - Alliances, Trade Agreements, Feasts, Diplomatic Marriages, Vassals (of other factions)
Quests & NPC's - Interesting, unique, culturally varied, voice acted quest lines and NPC's to populate the world and immerse you in it
Kingdom Management - Better control of the armies and fiefs in your kingdom, big expansion in castle + town management and construction possibilities and ideally a kingdom political system with intrigues, titles etc