So... you... want her to die just because she has given you "only" 2 kids?
Eh? I tried to powerlevel a character with smithing, took 45 mins to lvl 20. Sure some luck needs to be calculated in, spent one time one Twohander-weilder char and got basically no recipies, despite having X the Smith companion. Was rather odd, samething with a char I wanted to do Javelin-mastery with, took forever to get the recipie (however on another char, it was the first recipie I got, the Tier5 one)
And then the Mongol/Khuzait said: This is why you dont win wars.
Also leveling up your troops if they resist.
Never selling crafted items aint hard, never did that in Warband, and for the first couple of months into this game. I do mostly use Jav-crafting for leveling up companions, it is SO DAMN EASY to get to lvl 20 in like an hour or less. Heck, got a Western Empire play were I did that, he got the Tier 4 or 5 Javelin head at lvl 1. Spent all my money on pugios and hardwood. Smithed. Lvl 20 in just 3 days ingame or something.