Perks are irrelevant here. This is about the raw mechanics of combat, where progress has be agonizingly slow during the beta, and where that progress was often made in the wrong directions.
Bannerlord's combat is flawed to the core and Taleworld's approach into fixing it has not been effective at all.
The slowest and most ineffective at the moment is that you have the opportunity to write on this forum, you have been asking for a ban for a long time, if you dont like the action game, play your favorite Warband, your spam is absolutely not interesting.
Say thanks to the patient developers and moderators for not throwing you out of here.