Emotions In Motion v.IV

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@Moose!: you're doing the lord's work there. Thank you.

Lord Brutus said:
Calradianın Bilgesi said:
sounds like these classical plays where they fit a battle 2 suicides and a divorce and two marriages all in a single day
Indeed it does.  Eternal, did you kill the girl's father at the same time?

He seduced them, first. Then he killed them.
 
if you're really that worried about her, graylord, you do realise that it is an option to break up with her gently and like...stick around and help her adjust? be a friend willing to help her avoid what you're worried about?

it's not like you break up and boom never speak again...
 
Graylord said:
The thing is, she already has been commited in the past, and she's slowly been working her way up, and is just a few months away from finally being able to finish her studies at 28 and be more independent, it's like literally the ****tiest, most fragile point of her life to go through a breakup.
You've been thinking about breaking up with her for about a year and you want to add a couple of months? Not even Daniel Day Lewis can stay non-stop in a believable character that long. I'm pretty much 100% sure she knows or at least suspects something is up and it's not doing her mental health any favors. Maybe the break up would be a wake up call for her to start living her own life. There's helping someone out and then there's enabling, reinforcing and rewarding dependent behavior. Or maybe she could meet someone who genuinely likes her and supports her. Or maybe not, nobody knows. But it seems a little too bold to just assume that you kinda, sorta being around is such a big deal and everything would collapse if you were not around anymore. Is it really about her and her well-being or is it about you and your own issues that led you to, as you said yourself in the first post, starting a relationship you didn't really want and now make you unable to quit it.  And that make you seriously consider hooking up with your boss, which is a terrible idea, especially when the boss sounds like a mental breakdown about to happen.
 
Feragorn said:
Marowit said:
Broke up with a girl last month, got together with another girl the next week, broke up with a girl two days ago and I'm now dating a different girl today. What a whirlwind.

Is that even really dating?

Quantum monogamy. If you burn through relationships quickly enough then the superposition of all your partners makes it feel like polygamy.
 
Lord Brutus said:
Calradianın Bilgesi said:
sounds like these classical plays where they fit a battle 2 suicides and a divorce and two marriages all in a single day
Indeed it does.  Eternal, did you kill the girl's father at the same time?

Which one's?

Kentucky James said:
Feragorn said:
Marowit said:
Broke up with a girl last month, got together with another girl the next week, broke up with a girl two days ago and I'm now dating a different girl today. What a whirlwind.

Is that even really dating?

Quantum monogamy. If you burn through relationships quickly enough then the superposition of all your partners makes it feel like polygamy.

Ever have the feeling where you're thinking on a romantic memory with a person and then all related memories of the other romantic partners come into your mind? Surreal.
 
Dystopian regardless of the circumstances you are so absurdly infantile in all things you have no ground to stand on the moral judgements of others. On the TW forumite scale I rate you somewhere between a David Dire and Kobrag
 
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