I got married as a Saxon vassal, then split from the kingdom to venture out and build my own kingdom. My wife -who should have stayed in her fathers's castle- disappears entirely from the game making it impossible to keep relations with her. She's probably cheated 10 times on her hiatus. How are you supposed to stay in touch with your wife if by chance you loose holdings or change allegiance without owning a town or castle?
When I did split from the Saxons, I took over a Denmark castle in Mercia, in the faction relations screen it said I was not at war with them after taking their castle. So I (just to test what was going on) went into a battle between the Danes and Saxony and I was put in defense of a Saxon holding with just my men and no other help.
I have 8 saves at various points throughout this month long campaign which I began as a slave. I simply cannot make enough saves in one of these campaigns to avoid bugs. I'm done.
When I did split from the Saxons, I took over a Denmark castle in Mercia, in the faction relations screen it said I was not at war with them after taking their castle. So I (just to test what was going on) went into a battle between the Danes and Saxony and I was put in defense of a Saxon holding with just my men and no other help.
I have 8 saves at various points throughout this month long campaign which I began as a slave. I simply cannot make enough saves in one of these campaigns to avoid bugs. I'm done.