please ask yourself why your even here?
The last time I posted was nearly two months ago, I only posted on your thread because I felt like your concern is genuine.
I don't even look at the forum often anymore, as it has become a rather dystopian environment where new players enter, complaining of the very same issues that others have pointed out for 2+ years of Alpha testing, Beta testing, and Early Access, and have their blossoming hope for change crushed by increasingly demoralized and sardonic veteran players.
My advice is to get a PC, so you can enjoy whatever life is left in the multiplayer scene through multiplayer mods such as BLO (MMO Bannerlord), Persistent Empires (Large Map Multiplayer, Sieges, Resource Farming, Roleplay, ect), or cRPG (Battle mode where you design and level your character).
If you decide to play, I can give you a list of the major clans/communities on the scene for these mods and you can choose what fits you and your console friend group the best, just send me a forum PM.