Ye - got this prob myself - neverending feast wtf? Will try the suggested campaign solution I was actually contemplating moving my capital to se if it would "break" the feast. Thing is as I am running Diplomacy I wasn't really sure if this was a Diplomacy-related bug or related to the game itself. I guess it is the game. I don't know if there's a community patch under develeopement but I will list the conditions/order of events.
1) Feast is thrown as a part of a "quest" from the old ball and chain.
2) I actually fail the quest IDK why I started it before the quest finished, but obviously it didn't finish before the quest timer did. IDK if that timer is related to STARTING the quest or FINISHING it?
I saw the initial poster being told this should be in the single player section? Navigating here myself there's not much indicating this is the multiplayer section? Maybe make it a little more clear for us newbs would make the job easier for the moderators?
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Update: Campaign worked for me too - paid off too, took my boys over to a castle and told them to get out or else - gave it to me for free.
Anyways when I threw my next feast wifey told me that I could end it by
either starting a campaign
or by telling the lords that they could leave. Guess I might have forgotten that info the first time but the second option was never there.