This is going to be a long one but after trying other sources I could not find either a fix or a workaround. (TL;DR at bottom)
I am currently at day 159 and I have been enjoying this mod immensely. At least I was until roughly day 100, when I realised something horrible. At first I thought I was just being too ambitious, starting my faction very early on but then it hit me. It wasn't just that I was at war with 4 factions who hadn't even announced their war declarations (literally the warning I got for being at war was their army turning up at my town with no message), but I was the only faction in the game at war and had been for roughly 20 days. So I mustered my best men and dug in and by God did we win some fantastic victories. Soon it turned out that I had the upper hand in every war, slaughtering their armies with waves of verterun black orcs and gorols.
The Dwarves and the Empire eventually sued for peace, only to break their truces within a week or two. This happened so regularly that I decided to take the upper hand and break the peaces before they could by freeing orc warboss' (I am my own faction called ' DA WAAAGH!' ) in their captivity, in the hopes that when the orcs fell their warboss' would defect to me. Fighting 4 factions engaged on a single fronted war isn't just difficult because they can attack you with all of their lords. It is nearly impossible because every lord has 100-300 men and most of them are elite since no one is raiding their villages. This means that I usually get raided by 700-1000 man armies twice a week. Unfortunately a new problem has arisen, now no one is accepting peace, even if I have their king surrounded and outnumbered with his armies defeated twice in a row. This means I am now constantly at war with no more 1-2 week intervals. I can't recruit peasants fast enough to bolster the numbers (they rank up really quickly) and now I am slowly dying, with 200k in my pocket unable to spend it on anything. Are there any bug fixes for any of these problems?
Later I said:
It seems I may have found the reason for total peace. Here is a picture of Chaos at day 117
and here is a picture at day 160
. Notice how in 43 days, only 8 days have passed for the truces. To make things stranger the goblin truces have aged 0 days in 43 game days (correction, I was looking at wrong save, they have aged 8 days like everyone else). It seems no one is at war because everyone has a truce with each other which won't expire. Also I installed the bug fix patch when I got this mod.
With these problems I cannot play as an independent Orc faction as stated here:
I could fight 4 factions pretty easily if the game worked normally however as I said earlier, this truce bug is making the game unplayable, especially since every party now has elite units. For example Kurt Helborg, who used to be my hilariously terrible nemesis, would turn up with 30 peasants and try to raid me. Now when he tries to raid me, he arrives with 120 men in his army, backed up by at least 3 other lords in his faction and most of the time an entire other factions army will assist him. So in effect the 2 reasons why this game is nearly impossible is because truces don't expire therefore every faction who would have some reason to fight you, will. This is made worse by the second cause which is other factions breaking truces with you whenever it pleases them, and no message appearing makes it very hard to prepare against invaders. All in all it means that I will have 4 factions attacking me by myself for at least 150 more days with no hope of a stable peace. I also have never taken an Empire fief even though the war is apparently heavily in my favour.
TL;DR, 150 days of war against 4 factions who only have myself as their enemy is making this game impossible. Also I have no idea how to make images smaller on this forum so I just made them spoilers.