Well ****, negative reports all around that is sad to hear. I'm past caring around "randoming" though, you rather reach a point when you've played for a while you just expect it, shrug and move on. The more enforcement in place to prevent it the far more trolls would pour in to milk some tears. Aldric MAY be the saving grace for PW but that would hinge on what you expect.
In my experience, there will never be a perfect world in PW, never going to be randomer free for longer than it takes fresh, bright eyed admins to burn out under the weight of 50 complaints an hour. Go to have fun, don't get too attached to your pixelated possessions and all will be well.
Anyways good luck with your new server/s, I do hope PW is a thing for bannerlord. Maybe then I'll be around.
P.S. I remember you as well Hugues Ello. But don't judge the servers man, management/adminning isn't easy. I'm sure if you think really hard you'll remember the purple spam that made your brain explode and all the alt tabbing to read logs for proof/mediation. Oh the fun. It only works and is easy when you have a decently sized, dedicated team, of which we both had on our respective servers. Not everyone can achieve that though.