Every time I join an allied siege attack, its my own troops that wind up on the front lines pushing the battering rams and siege towers. They're always the first up the ladders and end up taking the heaviest casualties. I can have the smallest army of the group and I still take twice as many casualties as the next guy. If I can't actually control anyone in the siege, then I'd appreciate not having my guys be treated as meat shields by my so-called friends. Here I am trying to help and instead I'm getting taken advantage of.