OMG how can you even play this game with all those town tagged
your game is a mess.. and your screenshot doesn't show WTF you are even talking about.. If you want some answer you should learn how to properly ask something on the forum and if you are using mods, we can't help because you have modify the game.
EDIT: and you have post this in the wrong place I think
EDIT 2: And I think this is a normal thing you ask... because do you see people joining the army of their country in real life?? YES