lksohimae said:
hi! may i know the advantages/disadvantages or simply the difference of Male and Female characters when they get married? like is there unique dialog/options
Well, as a male you can have "advance your standings in our realm" dialog that you would have with a minister (without being a king). Although you can ask lords for that (not sure of the difference between those though). And you can appoint her as minister to save using a companion for it. That's it pretty much. I don't usually bother marrying as a male so maybe I'm missing something.
As a female is much better. You have access to his garrisons in any castle/town. That means free troops and a place to put spare troops (with no cost for you). You can use that for reunite a army of Hero adventure without having to pay their taxes in between for example. I don't know if that hurts your husband's economy though (not that I would care). You can support hin to be awarded with fiefs. Since he is a sure supporter of you if you rebel, the more fiefs he has the bigger your kingdom will begin. Definetly much worth marriying as a female, I made many games as one for that sole reason.