It is freaking bizarre how what tenuous fictions some men will promote to try and argue that a woman is responsible for any man's bad actions.
Do you consider yourself responsible for all the actions of any player in any clan you were ever a member of?
First of all, this has nothing to do with gender. And yes, a cleanleader is always responsible for the actions of any of their clan players. It was this way back in Warband where real Clans were formed since fights were not between teams but actuall clans. I degress. When a player doesnt behave you give them a warning. If they do it again you have to make a choice: a) kick them from the clan or b) admit that the image of the clan is to be a jerk or worse whatever the accusation was. As cleanlead one will always be the image of the clan. If the clanlead endorse bad behaivor this will be the clan image. Leaving or beeing kicked from a clan was a huge dishonor and shame back in warband times. People were called names and even less if they dared to leave a clan. There were only two good reasons to leave a clan: a) you leave on your own accord because said clan got a bad image (like its the case now) or b) the clan disbanded.
Now if one still remains in a clan with a bad image, support them in the forum signatur, remains in steamgroup, discordgroup, taleworlds group that means one support the clan. Supporting the clan means supporting the image of said clan. Supporting an image means standing for said image. Thats why one should always leave the discord, leave all groups and cut all connections.
However back in Warband we as Clans also had the administration of who was playing online, since we controlled the server. We could bann them for abusing stuff and could do other administrations which are now on TW. We made the rules and enforced them. Now its on TW if they support said behaivor or have the means and the guts to ban people like we did back then. People could still play offline or some undesired servers that were dead anyway but not on the real playground. Now we dont have that controll over them anymore. (I mean they could always buy a new copy that thats costs real money - now the do free family sharing...). Therefor we should not fight between ourself or should blame eachother. Its on TW to act upon and show what kind of community they want. There are several people and whole "cleans" still playing that valve and others would have banned a long time ago with how they behaived and by what they said.
Nevermind back to the lurker vail I go. Just had to drop my 2 cents on this.