Ryzen 9 3900x, 64gb 3600hz ram with a Aorus 2070 Super. I still play the game on medium w/ shadows/sunshafts turned off because it runs better that way. xD
But the game is gorgeous at full settings, thats for sure. If you can fix the problem with being completely unable to see anything at all in a dark room (which is why everyone turns shadows off) and tone down the glare you get when leaving said dark room, i'd bump those settings up again for sure.
Also, this is the only game that when streaming to twitch, any foliage in the game just kills the bitrate and makes everything grainy as hell. That could be my own net issues though, but it is specific to Bannerlord ?