I found a way to fix it, in this old thread
http://forums.taleworlds.com/index.php/topic,111418.0.html
I just paste his over your update volunteer npcs in villages, but im thinkin it probly messes alot of stuff up maybe, but the culture is now recruiting right
I pasted his over the update volunteer from villages, and i pasted it over the next one that updates volunteers for lords
should even I do this? or will it mess up stuff later like with the government types with many troops vs few good troops and centralization etc, will what I did break some of that?