Since this is a more appropriate thread than the what makes you happy thread...
I've been dating my girlfriend for two months now - it's going great, we're going camping together in a few weeks, and we're developing pretty serious feelings for each other! I can't say I'm in love at this point, but I also can't say love isn't going to happen?
My wife is still feeling pretty threatened about the whole situation, but she seems to be coming around to the idea. We've been going on dates as well, which has been really nice. It's been (and still is) painful, but I feel hopeful that we can evolve our relationship into something stronger than the relationship that I thought was great before it broke. For the time being, I know that I want to keep dating both of them!
I finally told my mom and dad about the whole situation, and that was a huge weight off of my shoulders. They want me to be happy, but they also think I'm crazy, that I don't know what I want, and that what I want is unrealistic. Maybe they're right?