So I've been with this girl for almost two months now, I really like her. She's smarter than me, she's funny and interesting and pretty hot too. But, she becomes a passive-aggressive, self-centered ***** for very unimportant things sometimes. I'd leave her if I didn't think her qualities outweigh the *****iness, so I decided to live with the occasional ***** slap I get. That ain't too much of a problem, but I'd still prefer if there was no problem at all as it can hurt. How do I deal with the passive-aggressive bull****? Is the solution to just say **** it and instead of trying to calmly talk about it and take undeserved blame just let her cool down and come to her senses? That would probably bother me as I'd know I didn't try to solve a problem, but is solving it a waste of time and nerves?