sorry to bump this old thread but it doesnt seem to work for me? I want the second oldest daughter for my brother but hes offering an old widow instead. Id like to avoid his firstborn daughter as a marriage candidate as well but Ive tried cancelling the trade but he just keeps offering her up regardless. Odd beause when I matched my older brother with Arwa the second i rejected the proposal the option was no longer available for him anymore, only my sister marrying into their clan. But now, when i need it to, that doesnt seem to happen....
youre wrong. after enough skill your character should have an idea at least for how much value corresponds to her rank