Okay thanks for this advice everyone, and for those vids, Reapy.
I think what will help is me attacking through the bots' attacks more often. I think I'm 1) blocking too much and 2) trying to chamber block too much.
That sneak into town ownage vid has the character only chambering a few times a fight. I'm trying to do that practically every strike, and getting swamped. I need to use more "real" fighting tactics then, which largely consist of intercepting attacks with your own and "beating them to the punch" as it were.
But sometimes it hard because as a combatant in real life (I've been a competitive fencer for more than 15 years), its frustrating to see these large, obvious openings from opponents that I can mechanically do nothing about in game because how slow my characters is.
Throw me into that situation with no armor and a well-made light rapier and I'd own those idiot bots (as long as I don't get shot with an arrow
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