I know this is very general advice, but still: People on the internet will always internet first. I also doubt people actually HATE you here for your beliefs, at most really forums just make people more exaggerated in whatever they're espousing than they'd be in real life.
how? i dont remember that, only caravans etc?
I don't know why youc an't just create your own kingdom at anytime, and the mainquest just kind of helps guide. I figured that's what it would do, not prevent you from sandboxing. I do agree that's against the spirit of sandboxing.
mommy I don't wanna be butterlord anymore..