Marrying daughter of cruel lord

[Shadow-Seeker]

You can also get a sort of quest from someone's relative.

Let's say me and lord Fouchier are on bad relations.

If I talk to his father, Duke Alamar, he might try to fix it by making  me get him a gift of velvet and furs.

That's the only other thing thats like that.

 

[AxeMaster3]

Your faction steward (companion/wife) will also give the quest to you.

But it doesn't mean the 2 lords in question will start getting along.
The quest may reset often but it will likely be the same 2 Lords every time.

Its better to let the Lords Elect your Marshal.
That is if you want to have successful campaigns.

You can also get a sort of quest from someone's relative.

Let's say me and lord Fouchier are on bad relations.

If I talk to his father, Duke Alamar, he might try to fix it by making  me get him a gift of velvet and furs.

That's the only other thing thats like that.

If you talk to the wife of the lord, there is a raise relation quest there too.

But you have to be her Champion first...

 

[Shadow-Seeker]

Omg I can never get those champion quests, I could get them all the time in native but never in POP

 

[AxeMaster3]

It takes a bit of luck, alot of research and war or a tourney.
When Thier son is prisoner and you save him is the best way that I found. It gives +8 relations.
Also, if there is a tourney without a feast and you are not married, you can dedicate the win to the wife of a lord.
Example, Duke Alexis owns Rane and you start with -3 relations to him. Wait for a tourney and dedicate the win to his wife.
She will then be able to repair relations and you don't have to suck up to him through a quest.