A few starting out questions.

[Ludial]

Thanks! I do however have an other question. I'm a vassel now and i've conqeured both a castle and a city, but both times my king decedid to give it to someone else (which wasen't even in the battle!).
Does this mean i've got to few renown to receive it, or am i being screwed? And should i seek to a more generous king?

you probably have too low renown + your relations with the king are not that high. So you need more renown; typically lords have pretty high renown and in the course of wars many of them are left without fiefs, so the fiefs go to whomever has higher renown+has no fiefs+plus relations with king+random chance(something like that)

 

[Twisted]

Ahh like that. I thought i was getting screwed. Well i still was anyway hehe. But i've switced sides though. Do now own a castle and 2 villages.