Yes, I have trouble "gendering" men who want to be women, as women. That makes me transphobic I guess and I can accept that, since I keep running into misgendering stories on my liberal news feed and know the liberal standard that's expected.
However, in an informal setting like an off-topic game forum, I do expect to be given some leeway. I think my offense is very minor and not personally directed, so I don't deserve to be insulted with the same label as people who actually hate or hurt transsexuals.
I believe discussion is more important that name-calling, because you learn something from it (and I did when I posted that from the HELPFUL people who didn't rush to label me).
I don't think that necessarily makes you transphobic. Just because you don't understand something doesn't necessarily mean that you are afraid of it or hate it.
And @Nega-Brutus, I know that edginess is your thing, but I think that you do yourself a disservice by engaging in that. You seem to be an otherwise intelligent person who is very capable of nuanced thought, but sometimes just HAS to go completely ape**** (forgive my French but I can't find another term that expresses that properly ). Anyway I am glad that the conversation is steering towards a positive and constructive direction.
Regarding Blender, something that I have always found very confusing myself is how much things can change from one version to another, which can be a problem when looking for tutorials. I also worked on a project in Blender Game in the past, and it was working great for me and was just what I needed... And then they discontinued it