In my game I'm thinking the same, but here's my situation...
I already helped the Vaeger claimant, so I want to be the Vaeger's friends.
I want to help the Sarriand claimant, so I can be their friends.
With Vaegers, I want to eliminate the Nords and take their lands.
With Sarriands, I want to eliminate Khergits, and take their lands.
So that leaves for my start the land of Rhodoks and Swadians.
I don't care about the Swadians, and they are relatively easy for me, but the Rhodoks seem like nice guys and are old time rebels of the Swadians.
Regardless, that leaves the Rhodok and Swadian lands for me hopefully. Sadly, it is my least favorite piece of land and style of buildings
