TW does not even have to come up with (most of the requested) solutions to be honest. "
True Relations" and "True
Noble Opinion" already handle a lot of these issues - TR improves/decreases relations with clan/companions/spouse, etc. over time and TNO gives every noble the ability to have their own opinion, so they don't simple parrot the clan leader.
The works has been (mostly) done TW - just ask nicely to have it become part of the game.