I appreciate that you've been playing for a while and lurking for a bit. Also I'll concede that maybe I - myself - was unfair in shutting you down and discounting your opinions so quickly.
The thing you've got to understand about our experience, though, is that this forum has been repeatedly bombarded for the past year by aggressive, toxic people raging at any criticism of this game or the devs.
Almost always these people have no clue what they're talking about. Just today there's a guy derailing the modder open letter megathread with hypotheticals about how MAYBE TaleWorlds is hamstringing mod development for our own good because some mods might violate copyright law - something TW has never suggested because any admission of
intentional mod hamstringing would provoke riots in this forum.
A couple weeks ago there was another newbie who flamed community members in a dozen threads after starting a ~400 hour Warband YouTube Let's Play a few WEEKS before. To be clear: this feat would only be possible if they did nothing but play Warband and eat and maybe sleep (I mean... meth is also a thing?). This individual proceeded to flame everyone about how much better Bannerlord was than Warband, despite not playing either for more than a month or so
plus showing ignorance about basic features of either game. *I* even caught flak from other forum members for being harsh to this person, who then started to drop

"troll" posts like doing nothing but gaming for a month - at the expense of all decency, sanity and personal hygiene - was all an elaborate troll job.
Some people are just pathologically fixated on this game being good or getting good - then react with violent rage at anyone who disturbs their fantasy.
And, as I've said before, I've worked for software developers and I'm also a forum member in other Early Access projects. I'm practically obsequious to Daniel Fedor despite manifold bugs and delays with his games because I
know that I can reach him on Discord whenever I want and have a real conversation with him within a reasonable amount of time afterwards. My default position is politeness but, at a certain point, politeness has to give way to frustration and - in the real adult world of software development - that is
normal. Any dev who cannot take criticism of their product and any community rep who can't communicate with their customer base is screwing up at their jobs.
We are straight-up telling you that the devs have been ignoring and obfuscating and lying for a year. Politeness has not worked. By your suggestions to the contrary, you're calling us liars and/or idiots.
If at any point TW decides to turn things around, I guarantee that forgiveness would follow virtually instantaneously. But that hasn't happened. I worry that it won't. And your posts aggressively trying to tone-police us are not going to be greeted with respect, because - by any sane definition - you are a white knight. Own it, brother.