Wars, wars, wars (Please balance, limit the # of on-going wars against the player)

[Arastorm]

Playing Beta 1.3. Started my own kingdom with the banner quest.

Now I have a war declared against me about once every three game days from kingdoms near and far. As a new kingdom, a single war can be a challenge.
Five wars at once is unplayable and zero fun. It becomes a horrendous game of whack-a-mole.

 

[Arastorm]

Is there a game setting for this that I could tweak?

 

[Tim-Ab]

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[Arastorm]

My final solution was to uninstall the game and come back in two years when it's finished and there's plenty of great DLC.