Xeridium said:...
Helix Falks said:All Lords can and will defect if the circumstances are correct. The best way to get an honourable Lord to join you is to take his town/castle and capture his liege, this way the liege can't give him new lands and his relations with his king will decline over time bare in mind that not all Lords get on with each other and some lords won't join you if you have their rivals on your side.
This is good to hear, but there is still so much guesswork involved in the process. Especially since lords seem to only ever take your claim into consideration once. If you fail to join them the first time, you're SoL after that. I'd love to be able to tweak this process further into my favor, especially to reduce the cooldown period of a lord refusing to talk politics.
well that's not important -- while lords response to your claim based on their personality, their decision of whether to defect depends heavily on their courtship position and relationship with liege. On top of that, lords will question your claim if you change it frequently (i.e. promise land for some lords, promise to uphold ancient rights to others, etc.).