What relation do you need with their dad. I'm at 7 with him 30 with her but he won't let me suitor... I have 1 persuasion how much more relation do I need with him?
When you talk with him he will say something like "You have got a chance to meet my daughter/sister (her name)"
However he does not come to you it happens when you go to him
well..after getting married, your wife has some quests to settle down disputes between your factions lords. it gives abt 20renown and maybe some honour
Ohhh the irony. I remember vassals throwing their ugly daughters left and right at me, just because I was trying to be nice to them.
Funniest part is when you have to duel other lord to take the girl out of him, when he got her *promised* before you.
As for wife she is there just for sh1t and giggles, not like she does much, unless you want to send her to shop for old horse bread, and to throw a party once a time.