Rest in peace, Vitus.
Gasset said:Rest in peace. My condolences go to his family and all friends in these moments of sorrow. And to him, I hope he finds peace and solace wherever he is.
I did not know this person. To me, as many others, he was a faceless name in a server. As a small community of people playing the game often, we must remember to try to treat each other with respect in all moments. It's easy to forget that behind every screen, there's a human being, just like us. A person with a series of hopes, dreams, problems, good and bad days, etcetera. But some people may, unknowingly for us, experience extreme hardship in their personal life outside the little social sphere Warband is. For people like this, words of kindness can save the day. An afternoon at siege. A conversation in teamspeak. A chat with a friend.
Let's hope that an event as heartbreaking as this can help us improve how we treat each other as a community, and thus to improve as individuals. Some of us play with the same people almost every day. In conditions like this, it's not hard at all for bonds of friendship to be formed, between two people, or several. Let us treasure these bonds, the hours we spend running away from whatever afflicts us, playing and having fun together.
Suicide is an earthquake. It ruptures the lives of those it leaves behind. The aftershocks ripple into the minds and hearts of many people. Should anyone feel distressed enough to think about commiting suicide, don't bottle all the bad feelings and emotions inside your mind. Talk to someone. It may be hard due to the silly stigma sorrounding the topic, in an effort to make sense of it, perhaps, we label the person who ended his or her life: He was selfish. She was crazy. They took the easy way out. These sorts of things couldn’t happen to us.. Reality says differently, labeling tragedies like this is inhumane since the reasons and factors behind the tragedy are too complex. One of the measures to destroy this stigma is to talk openly on the subject. Look for help amongst your loved ones; family, friends. And should you have no one to talk to, even online friends can help you out, lend you a friendly hand.
Remember we're all here for each other, bless you all.