Let me reiterate on the two previous posts - if you fight with your infantry, you need something long and very pointy, preferably something that doesn't have a side swing and has high base damage for the thrust. Awlpikes seem to be the best thing when it comes to that. Another would be the ashwood pike, also the military scythe(these last two cut on the overhead swing instead of bludgeon). With these weapons you'll be stabbing away at the enemy(of course, distance management is essential).
If you fight often alone, you'll need something that can hit from any side and will take care of the enemy quickly. That means either big choppeh things(long axes, bardiches, voulges, glaives), or fast and light sticks that you can use to stun and beat up individual enemies(spears and staves). The disadvantage of the former is that they are always fairly heavy and quite slow. Only use them if you have an insane proficiency and want to quickly kill large numbers of enemies(in order to improve your proficiency, first spend some time fighting as a pikeman in your battleline). The disadvantage of the latter is that they're kinda weak. Mostly good for taking out single enemies that separate themselves from the main fight to go specifically after you(being light and fast, they're a good sidearm but not a good main weapon).
now, there's a weapon that seems to combine the best of both worlds - the balanced iron staff. Blunt damage close to 30 both on swing and thrust, as light as any pike, fast as a spear and long as a war spear. It still takes a good deal of skill though. Long hafted spiked mace is a similar weapon, only a tad shorter and slower(I think balanced it would deal slightly more damage than the iron staff).
You can actually use your lance as a pike on foot. Only you have to dismount when battle starts and join the footsloggers.
there's one little thing about light sticks - some of them are fast enough to warrant your enemy won't be able to land a hit on you just because of being showered with hits. namely, I'm talking about balanced shortened spear and balanced quarterstaff. Both weigh only 2 kg and have somewhat low damage, but I've had situations where they saved me from a shieldman just by being fast. The balanced shortened spear is also an awesome little thing for the confines of urban combat - not too long, not too short and fast as a devil
