The point is that people are rightfully disappointed as they were devblogged to expect more, and you tell them to suck it up because they played the game enough hours anyway. For many, they were not quality hours, they were hours of frustrations and crashes and bugs..I mean its completly your choice to compare something so major and life-changing like a marriage and kids with a simple videogame but ok, i guess. Staying with the analogy: will you be depressed and sad after you decide to "divorce" aka abondon the game? Have divorced people not a right to think back on happy times of their marriage? Do you feel like bannerlord is taking your "kids and house" for having currently unfinished and buggy content? I think by now you see that this comparison is a bit too dramatic / absurd.
When you divorce your first husband, you'll say to him, look on the bright side, I gave you good value? No, it was supposed to be more than that. Why are you like this? You are just going through husbands, aren't you.