The game is fun to me, does it lack crazy immersion sure. You know what, even if 1.5.11 came out tomorrow and all siege pathing was fixed, battles got scaled to 2000, last nagging memory leaks were gone, they brought back feasts and longer courtships and added grand tourneys and alliances...I have a feeling a lot of people here would STILL find a way to complain about it and whine that it didn't come out last year.
Now, before the angry person reading this shoots an angry reply at me, everyone is entitled to their opinion. If you want to spend hours of your day on the forum getting mad at "streamers" and "bad devs" and whatever boogeyman that is on you. However, to those people who do that, it's partly your fault that the devs and community managers don't want to engage.