Hi. i noticed if you get raided the reputation gets a -5 with the clan and person who raids you every time. at first it was easy to defend the villages. but now the Western Empire is at war with Aserai / Vlandia / Battania's and its difficult to keep up. i beat a party at my village. i turn my ass around and the 2nd person is on its way already. i dont mind being raided. but the negative relation that comes with it is difficult. especially later when starting your own Kingdom. or atleast do a -2 penalty -5 is quite alot especially if multiple people come.