Starting a Kingdom Problems

[Lord Hercules]

i started my own kingdom and then i joined another faction to end the kingdom and then by mistake attacked a patrol that was left over from my old kingdom and then decided to re-start my own kingdom again and now its constantly at war with my own self and i cant get into my main cities without having to try to sneak in to get in there.  how do i get the loyalty of my own kingdom to go up instead of down because its sitting on -45 right now?

 

[dia151]

hmm that is quite philosophical  question, something that a person alone cant handle. 

I havent played singleplayer for a long time so i cant exactly tell you,

When you sneak into town, if there is a option to speak to elder, speak to him and do quests for him, i think that should incrise youe relations with factions  ---- though i think thats not possible

go to your faction villages and do quests for village elders, i think that should incrise relations too

move in and help your factions vassal in battle should also incrise relations

once you sneak in town join tournament if there is one, and if it is even possible ---- though i think this isnt possible

do quests for your factions vassals, im not sure if this incrises relations with faction but i think it does

alternative could be that you somehow try to send a truce request to yourseleve

 

[Lord Hercules]

if it was possible to send a truce request to myself that would be awesome..unfortunatley its not.  at least not that i can see.  doing quests for village elders and guildmasters just increases relations with that town itself and not the factions.  ill have to try and see if helping vassals works out but as far as i know i cant see me improving relations with myself...as stupid as that sounds there has to be someway i can mod it or change something...if that is possible my ears are open to suggestions

 

[Lord Hercules]

so has anybody found out a way to lower the negative relation with my own kingdom???  someone out there has to know something.  mod a folder or something crazy.  PLEASE!!!!!