I can understand where a lot of frustrastions about cavalry in skirmish are coming from. They're fast, tanky, can one shot with a couched lance or well timed spear thrust, and can escape fairly quickly with the a "w" double tap. The new updates to archery make them harder to counter with a quick shot and with infantry it can feel like you need to keep your head on a swivel.
However, I believe these complaints are easily rectified if you just
git gud casul.
To clarify, the reason you're getting couched/shot all the time is because you're either out in the open or focusing too much on a fight. Fix your positioning, this isn't the duel server, you're fighting a whole ass team of people with different roles and believe it or not, there are sweaters like myself out there that want to play their absolute best and with current matchmaking, there's a chance you're going to go up against one. You can learn most basic things to keep you alive within an hour of playing/talking with higher level players. Myself, a dumbass, managed to do it so there shouldn't be any excuse as to why some casuals like yourselves can't figure out some counters to annoying play styles. You ****s think you've seen cancer? Try fighting 6 Aserai tribespeople throwing 8 javelins each at your **** from 2 feet away. This isn't a kids game. Your dumbass role play shield walls have no power here. Go play Full Invasion for that experience.
It's also important to remember that you have access to a big multiplayer community. Playing with the Rat Party (
https://discord.gg/pk3MMgw) and networking with the many high level players there (
https://www.fiverr.com/share/mYDNk7) has improved my skill considerably. There are also many groups that network within the Rat Party discord that are open to casual players and will help them improve their BL skills (
https://forums.taleworlds.com/index.php?threads/numinous-beauty-nub-na-competitive-open.406885/) ((shameless plug)). I understand that this can sound somewhat condescending but to be able to have fun with a game you need to be able to play it well and I really want to see this community grow into a great space for multiple levels of experience. It's going to take time however and in the meantime; are you happy staying in silver?
*Note* Taleworlds has also expressed interest in building a robust esports scene and if they want to make that a reality they should listen the better players of the game.
**Note** I don't consider myself one of those better players
***Note*** This is all within the context of skirmish mode since that is what the op wishes cav to be removed from