Worsin 说:
1. 90% of the time Feasts are announced and do not happen. I've literally waited days and no feast.
The feast starts as soon as it is announced. It can be canceled at any time, depending on what happens to the host, his marshal, or his kingdom. You have been waiting
after the fief has ended, not before it started.
2. So far 100% of the time when a quest is given for bandit camp it doesn't exist anywhere (used cheats to verify this)
If you mean that you used cheats to reveal everyone on the map or to teleport all over in search of a hideout... it does not work. Get a save editor, and look up the coordinates of the party that holds the hideout's defenders. Then teleport there, and
walk around for a while. Only then you will know it is bugged.
3. Finally got a feast to actually take place and guess what? 0 females there. So far i am unable to make any contact whatsoever with female NPCs to start courting them.
The ladies of marriageable age do not go anywhere by themselves. They will not show up unless their guardians do. Their guardians will take a while to arrive, if they ever do. If the host is unpopular, if the realm is in trouble, if the marshal calls a campaign, no one shows up.
Seriously, all of these are basic Warband mechanics. Pick a wife to be, befriend her father, get permission to court her, and go from there. Meeting chicks at parties is fun, and if you are an experienced player, you can bear the cost of going over the guardian's head, but if you are still learning the ropes, go the traditional route, i.e. get permission.