Gadheras
Squire
When you capture a castle/town, and you select show mercy, pillage etc. If you have party leaders in your army of a certain trait like cruel, and you show mercy, then you loose quite a lot standing with these characters. Standings you can't easy get back I got no idea how important standing will be in the completed game, but this is a bad thing. Got a family member with a cruel trait and he like -70 already just due to me show mercy to captured fifes.