

Gilrain 说:Try building your relations with them before you join a claimant. This makes it easier to persuade them to join them. I usually target those lords with castles or towns, build up a relation of 30+ (sometimes 50+ if I'm in the mood) and then join a claimant and rebel. This makes it a whole lot easier getting people on your side.
kaeldragor 说:Only one chance if you already tried to convince them with an argument of some kind. However, sometimes when you approach a lord, they will dissuade you from starting your argument. Something along the lines of "let's talk later, when no one else is around." Not sure what influences this dialog.
When I've encountered this, it has been on the world map, and if I go later and request a meeting with them while they're in a city, I can then make my case.