Lady wants to know me better

[Deltanight]

Hello,

I am dating a lady since a long time in the game. My relation is at 83 with her and everytime i choose to say the option "Do we think we have a futur together blabla", she ansers me that she wants to wait and wants to know me better.

Why ? Do i have to up further my relation with her ? My relation is at 100 with her father but he doesn't allow me to see her because he has other projects etc..
So what do i have to do if i want to marry her ? I can't even choose the option to flee with her..

Thanks.

 

[aspirine101]

You have to go to notes>characters then to your lady and search who is her father/brother w/e and then you'll need to gather a bit relation with him and you can then ask him to marry the lady.

 

[Deltanight]

Like i said I can't.
Despite that my relation with her father is around 98, when i ask him if i can marry her he answers that he knows that I have secretly met her and that he has other plans with his children blabla

 

[aspirine101]

Sorry, didn't notice, my bad

Anyway are you a vassal? I think they don't want to mess with ppl that aren't vassals... I had like 24 relation with Aelgyf and 7 relation with Ealdorman Swifthelm Seaxbalding and I could marry her...
Also, is your reputation bad?

 

[Deltanight]

Yes I am a vassal and my reputation is very bad : -378 haha